Nick Cave has penned an emotional tribute to his former Bad Seeds and The Birthday Party bandmate and punk icon Anita Lane whose passing at the age of 61 was announced earlier this week.
During her time in The Birthday Party and The Bad Seeds, Lane became romantically engaged with Nick Cave as the creative collaborators embarked on a relationship.
Speaking on his Red Hand Files forum, Cave was asked by fans for his thoughts on the sad passing of his former bandmate and lover, to which he wrote: “You think you know grief, you think you’ve worked out its mechanics, you think you’ve become grief-savvy — stronger, wiser, more resilient — you think that there is nothing more that can hurt you in this world, and then Anita dies.”
He added: “Standing on the street in a baby-doll dress, surrounded by sunshine, laughing and radiating a piercing beauty of such force you stop breathing.
“I could not believe my eyes.
“Later, at my kitchen table drawing things, she had a quickness of touch and a clear, light line full of humour, throwing each drawing away and starting another, charged with a rampant, unstable, fatal energy that would follow her all her life. My line, amateur and ponderous.
“Everyone wanted to work with her but it was like trying to trap lightning in a bottle. Mick Harvey managed to coral her into the recording studio, but these precious offerings are a fraction of what she was. She was the smartest and most talented of all of us, by far.
“Walked into the most prestigious art college in Australia — on a whim — and talked her way into being given a place there. Bought an easel, some butcher’s paper, some crayons, put on a dress, did her hair and never went back in.
“She thought the best ideas were the ones that never saw the light of day. She was the brains behind The Birthday Party, wrote a bunch of their songs, wrote ‘From Her to Eternity’, ‘The World’s a Girl’, ’Sugar in a Hurricane’ and my favourite Bad Seeds song, ‘Stranger Than Kindness’, but was much more than that.”
Cave added, poignantly:
“How could something so luminous carry so much darkness?
“Drank gin out of a baby’s bottle.
“Despised the concept of the muse but was everybody’s.
“Spoke in a child’s voice and was my best friend.
“Two months ago, speaking to her on the phone she seemed a million miles away.
“Loved her children more than anything. They were her pride and joy.
“It was both easy and terrifying to love her.
“Leaves a big, crying space.
Following her departure from The Bad Seeds, Lane went on to release a number of widely acclaimed solo albums including the vastly influential Sex O’clock and continued collaboration with former Bad Seed Blixa Bargeld in his Einstürzende Neubauten project.
Nick Cave’s tribute is a befitting eulogy to the life of late Australian musical luminary and creative force.